For some time there has been some controversy surround the use of the word ‘gay’ as a negative word. One teacher banned the use of it in his classroom. I disagree that using the word with a negative connation is in and of itself homophobic. (For an admittedly extreme example to contrast, the mere mention of the n-word automatically reeks of racism). This is the same word that once upon a time was a synonym for happy, bright, and had no connotations regarding sexuality at all. There is no doubt it is used to be offensive. But surely context and intent matters. Talking about a hooker is one thing when you’re thinking about the sport of rugby, and another thing when you’re not.
One student quoted in the article explains
“It’s not good if someone is using it as an offensive word to someone … but if you’re just talking about if the teacher gives you extra homework, that shouldn’t be as bad.”
which is fairly succint.
The meanings and connotations of words change over time. They are not static. Perhaps we could observe the creation of another “euphemism treadmill”.